When you look at the Kind of 4, its notice-visualize are demonstrated inwardly in order to by themselves
It make an effort to prevent underlying feelings out of Shame from the centering on exactly how book, unique and you can “different” he’s out-of others
In Method of dos, its notice-image are exhibited outwardly so you can someone else. They focus their attention into the anybody else through getting anybody else to like them and want them in their life. It try to be caring as well as service so you can other people so that they will not feel Shame. It work with their confident attitude for others so they is also persuade on their own they are a good and you will loving. It attempt to cover up and you will repress the bad thinking as much that you can, eg bitterness after they feel unappreciated for all they have done for other people. For as long as Twos get self-confident psychological responses away from anyone else they feel worthwhile and cherished.